Subscribe

subscribefeedburner Subscribe to the Apply Within Blog.

Enterprising Mom?

Looking for a source of support, connection and inspiration? Join us!

Free Consultation

Curious about coaching?

The best way to learn about it is to experience it for yourself.

Contact me for a free 30-minute exploratory session.

Archive for the ‘Work / Life Integration’ Category

Transitions in Work-Life Integration

Friday, May 30th, 2008

I’ve been absent from my blog for several weeks! Earlier this spring I was offered a wonderful opportunity to be the business and operations manager (part-time) of the childcare center that my two younger children attend. I’ve long been very fond of the school and had been working with the founder and manager as a parent volunteer. This opportunity would enable me to have an even greater impact on the non-profit school and be in the presence of and have access to my kids, even while working.

It would also create another stream of income while providing a whopping discount on full-time child care for two kids. I’m entrepreneur with two active ventures (Apply Within and The Enterprising Moms) and a mom who chose to develop a portfolio career with multiple streams of income as a way of achieving better work-life integration. Because I made these decisions, in part, to have more time with the kids, I initially struggled with decision to enroll them in childcare full-time.

Finding the ideal childcare situation is one of the greater challenges that working parents face. I’m fortunate to have a place where I’m thrilled to send my kids and one that’s so philosophically aligned that I’d consider working there as well. This made considering full-time enrollment a bit easier. As a pondered my options, I realized that in this situation, full-time care is just that — an option. It’s there if I need it. I can use it or not depending on my work flow — the ultimate in childcare flexibility.

This flexibility would also give me some space to focus increased attention on my other ventures. It would enable me to have more dedicated time with the kids and with work while being fully present for each. It would also provide a more consistent rich, stimulating and educational environment for my kids. And so, I took the plunge!

It’s been a couple of months since I started and there have been some challenges, which is why I’ve been away. As with any transition, there’s a learning curve and lots of adjustments to make in many areas of our lives. New schedules and routines; new time constraints and logistics to consider. The dinner time crunch has been exactly that. I’m still working on figuring out that piece!

So that’s where I’ve been. I’m still fully dedicated to Apply Within and The Enterprising Moms and look forward to continued growth both businesses. This new opportunity has just added an additional dimension to my career and I’m honing some key skills that are useful in all arenas.

I haven’t quite worked out the right mix of work and play just yet, but the picture is getting clearer each day. Being highly flexible and adaptable is key in navigating this transition as things evolve.

Stay tuned …

Spring Has Sprung!

Monday, April 21st, 2008

I’m back! Winter was a very busy time for me. I’d been taking several classes over the past few months on everything from business to parenting and things are finally winding down. My brain is chocked full of lots of useful (and some not so useful) information.

Because of the number of things with which I was involved and the limited amount of time available, I had to make some choices about how to maximize my time. And so, this blog went into hibernation again for a few weeks until life settled down. And, now that things are settling, I look forward to getting back into a grove.

Spring has sprung and as the weather warms, new growth sprouts and birds start my days with a song, I look forward to a bit of new growth myself. Stay tuned!

As Seen in The Washington Post

Tuesday, March 25th, 2008

Did you happen to see the main cover story in the Business Section of The Washington Post on Saturday, March 22? If not, take a look …

The story, “Career or Family? Yes.” explored the challenges faced by many working moms who struggle with work-life balance issues and highlighted several local firms, coaches and consultants that address these issues. Many assist moms in finding part-time and flexible work arrangements.

I am quite excited and honored to have been included in the story. If you’re a working parent seeking more a fulfilling and better balanced life, contact me to learn how I can help.

Living In Choice: Slowing Down

Monday, March 24th, 2008

As I mentioned in an earlier post, I saw the concept of choice play out through the eyes of a toddler — Loosh, my 17-month-old son. Watching him figure out how to have all that he had stuffed into his hands and still grab something new that he wanted even more, was watching conscious choice in action.

When I found myself sick last week with my second cold in the past few weeks, I knew I had some choices to make, so I looked to Loosh as my example. Even though I wasn’t flat-out, shriveled-up-in-bed sick, I wanted to take some steps to avoid getting there.

For weeks my days and nights have been really full. I’ve been engaged in some really fun and interesting work and classes and have been making progress on some really big projects. And, new opportunities have been coming my way. But, I realized that in order to get healthy and do more, I had to let go of some things.

I started by looking at my calendar to see what could be rescheduled, post-poned or canceled. Last week I canceled two meetings and rescheduled an all-day class so that I could slow the pace a bit. I put off grocery shopping until the weekend, when family would be in town. I’d be able to use that shopping time to focus on my projects and go grocery shopping while the kids were engaged with Dad and Granddad. And, rather than stressing about when we were going to clean up the house before family arrived on Friday, I arranged to have the house cleaned.

The wonderful thing about living in choice, is that it’s empowering. With each choice I made about how to spend my time, I felt more energized about making the next choice, and the next. Because I was no longer stressed about how to fit it all in before the weekend while feeling under the weather, I was able to slow down, figure out where my attention was most needed, and focus my energy there. It was a reminder of how all of the stuff that I need to do, and need to do immediately, really doesn’t have to be done by me specifically, and it doesn’t have to be done today, this week, or maybe ever.

My cold is almost completely gone, and so is the pressure of doing it all, myself, today!

Work-life balance is not something to be achieved. It changes as life changes. What’s working today may or may not work next week. Staying flexible, adaptable and creative about how you address work-life challenges is key, as is living in choice!

Have you had to reevaluate and make some tough choices recently? How did you handle it? What was the impact?

Getting Things Done: Time Stamp

Friday, March 21st, 2008

As a business-owner mom with three little ones, time is precious. I’m constantly seeking ways to do routine things a little quicker and smarter so that I can spend my time where it really counts. I often find that tips and tricks that are effective in my work life translate to my home life with pleasing results.

One of the tips from Getting Things Done (which I’ve blogged about previously) that has really proven it’s worth to me recently is about ‘dating’ things. David Allen, the author, recommends putting a date on everything that goes into your in-box. I’ve taken it a step or two further and put a date on just about anything that I or someone else will need to refer back to. This includes notes from a meeting or conversation (pretty obvious, but I would often forget), brainstorming scribbles, to do lists, etc.

One place this has really come in handy is in the kitchen. I’ve started dating things like the package of lunch meat I just opened, the unfinished jar of pasta sauce, the bag of flour that’s still half full. I’ve added dates to the quick notes jotted on the white board, the shopping list on the bulletin board, and the bag slow-moving veggie chips in the pantry.

When I went to clean out the fridge this weekend, I spared myself the awful taste and smell tests I usually do to determine what’s still edible, or not. The whole process took a fraction of what it used to because I was quickly able to decide that the turkey meat from 2/29, had been hanging around for a little too long.

It seems like a really small thing, and it is — and that’s the point. When you add up all the small things, the amount of time and effort you save can be significant. Rather than trying to recall when something was bought, opened, or cooked and then determine whether or not it’s still good, I simply put a date on. By dating an item on the front end (when it goes in the fridge or pantry or on a list or white board), it doesn’t require extra time or thought later, when I need to decide if it stays or goes.

What’s a way that you take back your time from routine and repetitive tasks?

Living In Choice – Lessons From a Little One

Monday, March 17th, 2008

A few days ago, I was at the playground with two of my little ones. Loosh, as we often call our 17-month-old, was off exploring in the grass and wood chips. He took a little stumble, grabbed the earth with all he could and came up with two fists full of wood chips. He was clinging to them for dear life and did not want to let them go. He paraded around the playground with hands full of chunks of earth, until he came upon something he wanted to hold even more.

It was really fascinating watching him figure out what to do next. He looked at one hand and then the other and realized that they were both full. Then he looked at the new thing that he wanted and realized that something would have to go. He looked at his hands again, and then back at the flower and then made a choice. He decided to fit as many of the wood chips as he could in one hand, letting the excess fall to the ground. Then he grabbed the wilting dandelion that his sister, JoJo, was handing to him, which he proceeded to smash under his nose and in his mouth — his dramatic way of imitating sniffing. Before long, he was off to looking for the next greatest thing.

As I watched Loosh go through this process of filling his hands, discovering something else he wanted to hold and then making a choice about what his was willing to let go of and how much, I was reminded of how we, as adults, face the same choices – particularly as working parents.

What do you do when faced with a tough choice? What process do you go through when adding something new to your plate? How do you decide what to let go of in order to make room for what’s new? Do you let go, or do you just keep piling it on?

Stay tuned for an article with tips on how to make empowering choices.

Alternative Work Arrangements for Moms

Tuesday, February 26th, 2008

I happened to catch a segment on the Today show yesterday, Jobs for Stay-at-Home Moms, about alternative work arrangements — though it could apply to anyone, not just moms. Danielle Babb, author, professor and technologist offered an encouraging picture for moms who want to earn a living while at home with the kids.

She offers tips on getting started in teaching online, selling on e-bay, bookkeeping, and professional shopping. Babb believes that there is an online job for everyone — moms and dads and those interested in working part-time, full-time or want to supplement an existing income. Learn more about Dr. Babb and do let us know if you land a gig as a result.

Back in the Saddle

Friday, February 22nd, 2008

It’s been a while since I’ve posted — I’m glad to be back! I’ve been busy working on developing my other businesses and refining the focus of Apply Within. I’m really excited about my how my coaching business has evolved to working with those seeking better work-life integration and/or alternatives to the standard 9 – 5.

My web site will continue to evolve as things begin to take shape. In the meantime, I’m bringing this blog back to life to share progress as we go. I look forward to announcing new coaching options, packages and formats over the next couple of months. I’ll also share my own musing about this transition, Getting Things Done, moms in business, alternative work arrangements and more.

Stay tuned …

Refining the Focus … Apply Within

Thursday, January 10th, 2008

If you’ve been on my web site recently, you may have noticed a few small changes. You see, after doing my own ‘year in review‘ and pondering what’s been working that I want to keep with me in the new year and what’s not that I want to leave behind, I’ve decided to refine the focus of my coaching business.

Over the past year, I’ve become increasingly involved with The Enterprising Moms, the community I founded for moms who are growing businesses while growing families. As a result of my involvement with the women in this community, I’ve realized that my passion lies in working with woman who want to create their own paths. They may want or need to work, and want to do it on their own terms. Perhaps part-time, perhaps from home or on their own. I want to work with expectant and established moms who are seeking alternatives to the traditional 9 to 5.

So, in the coming weeks, you’ll notice more changes on my web site as I hone my message, establish new offerings, and refresh the site. You’ll also notice some changes in the content of this blog, which will include more postings about alternative work arrangements, work/life integration, family, organization, time management and more.

So, please stick with me as the refining process gets underway and stay tuned for updates!

Keeping Time

Sunday, January 6th, 2008

As I mentioned in my last post, I’m a little slow getting started this year…

If you’re also a little slow getting started this year and haven’t already selected your calendar for 2008, take a look at Mom’s Plan-it, by Avalanche. This family calendar uses a traditional grid and takes it a step further. Features include:

  • spaces for up to five family members, enabling you to track your family’s activities at a glance.
  • a storage pocket and two tabbed sections for contact information – really handy for spouses and sitters.
  • tons of stickers for the most popular events, like dentist and doctor appointments, games, vacations, etc.
  • And, best of all, it has a magnetic strip on the back – perfect for hanging on the fridge.

If you start your calendar year in sync with the school year, you’ll be pleased to know that it’s a seventeen-month calendar that starts in August.

I started using this calendar in 2007 and bought my 2008 version well before the end of the year (something I don’t typically do).

What’s your favorite time-keeping tool?